Thursday, September 20, 2012
Wednesday, September 19, 2012
Monday, September 17, 2012
Saturday, September 15, 2012
I am always reading. Feel free to contact me for some good book recommendations.
Wednesday, September 12, 2012
Thursday, May 17, 2012
Tuesday, January 24, 2012
I know the title is not grammatically correct but I hear myself saying this from time to time. There are so many people that easily and freely give advice. For the most part I believe that they have good intentions. However, I also believe that there are those that reflexively impart their "wisdom" in self defense. Not because they are threatened but because their sense of self or self esteem is threatened. There are occasions when I have caught myself solving other people's issues and my desired result was that their behavior would have less impact on me. I have counseled my children so that their lives would look more like I wanted. With love of course but it is easy now for me to see that their growth, decisions and learning are their own. My meddling can only hurt. I remember listening to speakers live and recorded telling me not to take advice from anyone. More specifically, not to take advice from someone that would not benefit from my growth.
Who should I listen to? Another problem I run into is that I actually give more weight to advice that sounds like something I would say. I don't have to tell you, that's not going to help.
My conclusion is that my objective must be as clear and well defined as possible. I must listen to the highest version of myself and avoid the whisperings of those that are unwilling to rise to the highest levels. I am committed to becoming the best version of myself.
Monday, January 9, 2012
I love real estate. Not because I love driving buyers around to see houses. Not because I love knowing exactly what home buyers are going to buy and having to show 20 homes before they self discover what I knew from the beginning. Not because I love telling sellers that their home is not worth what they think it is. Not because I love helping sellers self discover that the only offer they have received in four months is a good reflection of what the market will pay. I love real estate because it is the ultimate self development course. I love knowing that if I am going to be successful in sales I must overcome all kinds of mental drunk monkey dooka and embrace discipline and accountability. I love knowing that all of my success depends on me. Here is the problem. I have made what I consider to be great and difficult changes in my life to become better. Most of you who know me will at least agree that I am willing to change. However, this last week I met with a friend that has 4, yes FOUR layers of accountability to make sure she accomplishes her goals. I thought I was committed. I see now where I need to grow. I am grateful for good examples and I am grateful for Real Estate.